Crisis in Church Leadership; Relaxing God’s Standards
There is a crisis of monumental dimensions brewing within the church due to years of watering down the Word of God and relaxing the criteria for leadership. The result is a diminished quality of overseers and a dramatic increase of clergy abuse cases, financial mismanagement and spiritually hurt believers. Through leadership flaws, many have left and are leaving congregations and are being devoured by the enemy at an alarming rate.
In the epistle of First Timothy, Paul gives Timothy specific instructions concerning a wide range of topics that deal with church administration and leadership. After discussing prayer and how women should act in public worship; Paul spends the first 13 verses of chapter three laying out the qualifications for bishops and deacons. Bishops are not someone in a tall hat or flowing robe who sit on thrones in old cathedrals. Bishops in the book of Timothy are the same as “overseers” in the book of Acts. A bishop is one who oversees an assembly of believers.
A deacon is literally one who “runs to serve”. A deacon is part of the “leadership team” of a fellowship but their duties tend to be more physical in nature vs. a bishop whose duties are more spiritual. Both bishops and deacons have very strict qualifications laid out for them. God most certainly holds those charged with the oversight of His people to higher standard.
The number one qualification for a bishop is to be blameless, which does not mean “faultless”. The only faultless man to ever live was Jesus. Everyone else has plenty of faults and God does not expect a leader to be perfect. What God demands from an overseer is that he be above reproach. In other words there is to be no secret sins and no scandals hidden in the closet. An overseer cannot lead two lives. What people see on the outside must reflect the integrity and character on the inside.
If a person wanted to apply for a job, there is a list of qualifications that must be met to even be considered. This section of Timothy started with the statement that if a person desires the office of a bishop, he desires a good and noble task. But, in order to be considered, certain qualifications must be met, with “being above reproach” at the top of the list. The remaining qualifications will narrow the list of potential candidates greatly:
1. Husband of one wife—in both Greek and Roman law, it was very common for man and wife to separate, and marry other parties during their lifetimes. Thus, a man might have three or four living wives meaning women who had all successively been his wives. This phrase is best described as “successive polygamy” rather than “simultaneous polygamy”.
2. Vigilant—sober or temperate
3. Sober—self-restrained, serious-minded, prudent
4. Of good behavior—orderly, a well ordered life
5. Given to hospitality—hospitable, showing love for, and being a friend to the believers, especially strangers and foreigners
6. Apt to teach—skilled in teaching, a ready teacher, ready, willing and able to teach at any moment
7. Not given to wine—not a drunkard, not addicted to wine, not a hard drinker
8. No striker—not combative, not given to brawls, not quarrelsome, not violent
9. Not greedy of filthy lucre—Omitted in best MSS
10. Patient—gentle, forbearing, peaceable
11. Not a brawler—considerate, peaceable, not contentious, averse to strife, avoiding quarrels
12. Not covetous—not a lover of money [insatiable desire for wealth and ready to obtain it by questionable means], free from the love of money, not fond of money-grabbing
13. One that rules well his own house—ruling his own household well, able to manage his own household properly,
14. Having his children in subjection with all gravity—keeping his children under control with true dignity, whose children are kept under control and well-behaved, keeping his children under control with true dignity, commanding their respect in every way and keeping them respectful
15. Not a novice—not a new convert, not a new Christian
16. He must have a good report of them which are without—ought to have a good reputation among those who are without the church, be well thought of by those outside the church, have a good reputation with the non-Christian public, bear a good character in the world’s eyes
The qualifications necessary for one to become an overseer seem from one perspective to be so rigid no one could possibly fulfill them all, but from another, so logical they should be demanded from any leader. The reason for all these qualifications is so that the leader is blameless first and foremost, but also so that they do not fall into the condemnation, reproach or snare of the devil.
The three great pitfalls of Christian overseers are; condemnation, reproach and the snare of the devil. These three things spell nothing but doom and disaster for the leader who falls into them. The condemnation of the devil results from being blinded by pride which is what happens to a novice. To fall into the condemnation of the devil can mean just that or it can mean the same condemnation as the devil receives. Either way, it is not something an overseer can fall into and expect to escape from.
To fall into the reproach of the devil is what happens to those who do not have a good witness from those outside the fellowship of believers. This is referring to falling into scandals or more specifically to become involved in slander. Once a leader falls into the reproach of the devil he is ensnared by him. The ultimate aim of the devil is to trip up, slander and trap those who are overseers of God’s people.
How many times in the past twenty five years have we seen great Christian leaders build huge ministries and become so full of themselves that they feel invincible. Then, once the pride is there, they fall into the condemnation of the devil and begin doing scandalous things. They abuse money and crave power. Their ethics slip and they get caught in sex scandals and other illegal activities. Once exposed, they are in the devil’s trap and snare. Their ministry is finished and their witness is forever shamed.
The reason these verses are in the Bible is to show those who desire to be a leader in the church what is expected of them and to provide an accountability factor for all who serve as overseers within the church. God is extremely protective of His people and is very selective as to who watches over them. The responsibility of an overseer in the church is an awesome privilege but it demands a level of integrity, honesty and pureness very hard to find and even harder to keep.
I know all too well what it means to serve under those whose ethics have been compromised and flagrantly disregard this section of God’s Word. This is called hypocrisy and deceit and God will deal with those who practice it in His due time. As a believer you have the right to hold those who are your overseers to the standards of God’s Word. Please, at least hold them to the first and greatest principle of them all; to be above reproach. If they reject this message, find a new assembly.